Here is a comprehensive list of all the things we spell out in the book.

For Women in General

Through a Man’s Eyes Video Workshop

For Women Only  by Shaunti Feldhahn

For Young Women Only by Shaunti Feldman & Lisa A. Rice

His Brain Her Brain by Walt & Barb Larimore

The Male Factor– Shaunti Feldhahn

Captivating by Stasi Eldridge The Mystery of a Woman’s Soul

Recommended Software:

X3watch Accountability Software

Circle Content & Screen Time Manager

For Women / Spouses of someone addicted to porn

XXXchurch for Wives


Open by Craig Gross

An Affair of the Mind by Laurie Hall

After the Affair by Janis Abrahms Spring

Every Heart Restored by Fred & Brenda Stoeker

Forgiveness by Jaspinder Grover

From Ashes to Beauty by Jeff Colón

Healing is a Choice by Stephen Arterburn

Hope After Betrayal by Meg Wilson

The Healing Choice by Brenda Stoeker & Susan Allen

When His Secret Sin Breaks your Heart by Kathy Gallagher

Boundaries by Cloud & Townsend

Boundaries in Marriage by Cloud & Townsend

Power of a Praying Wife by Stormie Omartian

To Learn More About Pornography Addiction

Pure Eyes by Craig Gross & Steven Luff

Eyes of Integrity by Craig Gross & Jason Harper

At the Altar of Sexual Idolatry by Steve Gallagher

Every Womans Battle by Shannon Ethridge

How America Lost Her Innocence by Steve Gallagher


Best Sex Life Now Video Workshop – Craig & Jeanette Gross | Dave & Ashley Willis

X3Workshops  Video Workshops – XXXchurch

For Couples Only – Box Set by Shaunti Feldhahn

Recommended Websites:

Intentional Hearts – Michael Todd Wilson

Affair Recovery   Rick & Stephanie Reynolds

Pure Life Ministries – Steve & Kathy Gallagher

Faith & Sex Center – Steven Luff

Intimate Marriages – Michael Sytsma

Stronger Marriages – Dave & Ashley Willis

The Comedy of David Dean (everyone needs laughter!)

Bootcamps & Marriage Events:

Affair Recovery  Live Weekend or Online Programs

Pure Life Ministries Live In and At Home Programs

Married Live Conference: Two Days for Tomorrow.


X3groups – XXXchurch (men, women, spouse groups)

Celebrate Recovery – Rick Warren


Christian Care Counselors Find a Christian counselor near you. – Find a sexual addictions specialist near you

Dr. Michal Sytsma – Atlanta area

Steven Luff – Los Angeles Area

Dr. Michael Todd – St. Simons Georgia area


Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages by Shaunti Feldhahn

For Couples Only by Shaunti Feldhahn

Fun Loving You by Ted Cunningham

Boundaries in Marriage by Cloud & Townsend

For Parents:


X3watch Internet Filtering Software

Circle Content & Screen time manager

Recommended Websites:


Pure Freedom

Book Recommendations:

Touchy Subjects  Book & Interactive Workshop by Craig Gross & David Dean

Man in The Making– Rick Johnson

The Young Man in The Mirror Patrick Morley

For Parents Only – Shaunti Feldhahn

Questions You Cant Ask Your Mama About Sex by Craig Gross

Youth Curriculums on Purity & Sex

Pure Sex   A DVD series students desperately need filled with guidance, wisdom and truth.

And The Bride Wore White  A free online video series for teenage girls

Get Lost A free online video series about guys and God and how girls get them mixed up!